Tampa Bay’s 21+ lifestyle & swingers community

Couples and singles · vetted · consent-first · discreet

Come out
to play.

Moonlit pool party under live oaks with pink-lit cabanas and string lights

Next event · HTL

16 days · 12:00 start

Autumn Under the Stars Hotel Takeover

Boutique-style hotel — details after RSVP · Tampa

A full day and evening hotel takeover: poolside fun, games, music and dancing beneath the oaks, at an intimate boutique-style hotel with very limited onsite…

From $30
Also coming up: Siren Nightclub Takeover · Jan 9

Where Your Fantasies Make Friends.

Upscale swinger parties, themed nights and hotel takeovers across Tampa Bay — for open-minded couples and singles. A little chemistry. A real connection.

How vetting works
  • 21+ only
  • Vetted guests
  • Consent-first
  • Discreet always
  • No pressure
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Your next good story

On the calendar.

Every upcoming invitation.

Nights · weekends · socials
Moonlit pool party under live oaks with pink-lit cabanas and string lights

1 day takeover · HTL

Autumn Under the Stars Hotel Takeover

Boutique-style hotel — details after RSVP · Tampa

A full day and evening hotel takeover: poolside fun, games, music and dancing beneath the oaks, at an intimate boutique-style hotel with very limited onsite…

From $30
TampArotic returns to Siren, Saturday January 9, 2027. Save the date.

Nightclub Takeovers · NIGHT

Siren Nightclub Takeover

Siren · Downtown St. Pete

Start time to be announced

Save the date: TampArotic returns to Siren in Downtown St. Pete on Saturday, January 9, 2027. Theme and ticket details to come.

See event details
FantaSea Connections, February 13–19, 2027: Miami, Belize, Roatán, Miami. Couples only.

More lifestyle travel · SEA

FantaSea Connections · February 2027

Miami · Belize · Roatán

Time to be announced

February 13–19, 2027: a six-night FantaSea Connections cruise from Miami to Belize and Roatán. Explore the sailing through TampArotic’s Right Connections…

Via Right Connections Travel
TampArotic returns to Marriott St. Pete/Clearwater, Saturday August 14, 2027. Save the date.

Overnight Meet & Greets · HTL

Marriott Overnight Meet & Greet

Marriott St. Pete/Clearwater · St. Pete/Clearwater

Schedule to be announced

Save the date: TampArotic returns to Marriott St. Pete/Clearwater on Saturday, August 14, 2027. Theme and booking details to come.

See event details
FantaSea Connections Fantasy Fest Edition, October 23–28, 2027. Key West overnight and Bimini, Bahamas.

More lifestyle travel · SEA

FantaSea Connections · Fantasy Fest Edition

Tampa · Bimini · Key West

Time to be announced

October 23–28, 2027: five nights from Tampa with Bimini, Bahamas, and an overnight in Key West during Fantasy Fest. Explore this new FantaSea sailing through…

Via Right Connections Travel
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Our nights. Our people.

Real dance floors. Poolside weekends. A hello worth coming out for.

See for yourself

01 · How we host

Every night,
one promise.

TampArotic is Tampa Bay’s private, 21+ lifestyle community — consent-first, pressure-free, and discreet by design. Show up as you are. Stay for the people.

Couples and singles. First-timers and veterans. Nobody here owes anybody anything but a hello.

Get to know us
An ice sculpture centerpiece glowing under club lighting at a TampArotic night
The details make the night.

What we throw

Pick a night.
Make a connection.

Stay for a drink.
Stay for the weekend.
Find your kind of people.

Guests gathered poolside at a TampArotic night, backs to the camera
03 · Tampa Bay

Meet-N-Greets

A relaxed, intimate social gathering designed to encourage conversation, meaningful connections, and mingling in a welcoming atmosphere with comfortable music levels.

See the socials

In their words

The people are
the point.

We've been to our share of lifestyle events around Florida, and nothing compares to a TampArotic party. Every event is dialed in — great venues, great music, and an electric vibe from the second you walk in. But honestly, it's the people that keep us coming back. This is hands-down the hottest, most welcoming crowd in Tampa Bay — gorgeous, confident couples and singles who know how to have a good time and make everyone feel like they belong, whether it's your first party or your fiftieth. We count down the days between events. If you're on the fence, just go — you'll thank us later.
The Maples

Afterglow

The kind of afterglow
you keep to yourself.

Three days, a whole resort, poolside sets from DJ Steven-B, games and contests, and a crowd that got very close very fast.

Take a look back

Your first night

A few familiar faces.
Before your first hello.

Meet the team

02 · Getting in

A short application
before you’re on the list.

  1. 01

    Pick your night

    Choose an event, then sign in or apply for Social, Supporting or Legacy membership. Couples and singles are welcome.

  2. 02

    Apply & get cleared

    Share your details once. Conditional approval lets you buy in the same visit. If host review is needed, we email your next step after approval.

  3. 03

    Host review & venue details

    A host reviews your application before the event. Once you're confirmed, the exact venue or hotel details come straight to you.

Your first night.
Your own pace.

Butterflies are welcome. Start with a conversation, enjoy the music and give yourself time to settle in.

Your first-night guide
A hello goes a long way.
Meet a host and ask the questions on your mind.
Curiosity comes without obligation.
Joining the evening never means agreeing to anything more.
Everyone’s boundaries matter.
Ask first, respect the answer and follow the event’s privacy and photo rules.

Membership

Belong here.
On your terms.

Start Social. Choose Supporting or Legacy for member savings, points, and more ways to connect.

Legacy

$99/yr

$9.99 / month

Priority access, deeper savings, and experiences made for Legacy members.

  • 25% off eligible couple event admission
  • 20% off TampArotic merchandise
  • 2X member pointsEarn 2 points for every $25 of eligible ticket & hotel spending.
  • 25 welcome points
Explore Legacy

Supporting

$59/yr

$5.99 / month

More connection, member savings, and a little more from every night.

  • 15% off eligible couple event admission
  • 10% off TampArotic merchandise
  • 1X member pointsEarn 1 point for every $25 of eligible ticket & hotel spending.
  • 10 welcome points
Explore Supporting

Social

$0

No recurring membership charge

Your free place in the TampArotic community. Attend events at standard pricing.

  • Your place in the communityFor vetted couples and singles, with no membership charge.
  • Event tickets at standard pricingTickets are purchased separately.
  • Your own member accountUpgrade when it suits you.
Apply for Social
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Our partners

People we
actually work with.

Featured partnerJoinTheSwing

Our hometown partner — a verification-first adult community for couples and singles, built right here in St. Pete. Founding memberships planned; the waitlist is open now.

Vetting & community by JoinTheSwing.com

Meet JoinTheSwing
Meet our partners

Next up

Come Curious.
Leave Connected.

If the vibe sounds like yours, get on the list and we’ll take it from there.

I want in

21+ · vetted · discreet

Next night: Autumn Under the Stars Hotel Takeover · Nov 21 · RSVP now