Tampa Bay’s 21+ lifestyle & swingers community
Couples and singles · vetted · consent-first · discreet
55 days · Full day & evening
Boutique-style hotel — details after RSVP
A full day and evening hotel takeover: poolside fun, games, music and dancing beneath the oaks, at an intimate boutique-style hotel with very limited onsite ro…
Where Your Fantasies Make Friends.
Upscale swinger parties, themed nights and hotel takeovers across Tampa Bay — for open-minded couples and singles. A little chemistry. A real connection.
How vetting worksYour next good story
Boutique-style hotel — details after RSVP
A full day and evening hotel takeover: poolside fun, games, music and dancing beneath the oaks, at an intimate boutique-style hotel with very limited onsite ro…
01 · How we host
TampArotic is Tampa Bay’s private, 21+ lifestyle community — consent-first, pressure-free, and discreet by design. Show up as you are. Stay for the people.
Couples and singles. First-timers and veterans. Nobody here owes anybody anything but a hello.
Get to know us
What we throw
Stay for a drink.
Stay for the weekend.
Find your kind of people.
A private room, a real DJ, and a crowd that already agreed to the same house rules. Dance, talk, watch, or call it early.
See the nightsPool deck by day, late rooms after dark. More time to settle in and actually meet people.
See the takeovers Next one: Autumn Under the Stars Hotel Takeover · Nov 21
A relaxed, intimate social gathering designed to encourage conversation, meaningful connections, and mingling in a welcoming atmosphere with comfortable music levels.
See the socialsIn their words
We've been to our share of lifestyle events around Florida, and nothing compares to a TampArotic party. Every event is dialed in — great venues, great music, and an electric vibe from the second you walk in. But honestly, it's the people that keep us coming back. This is hands-down the hottest, most welcoming crowd in Tampa Bay — gorgeous, confident couples and singles who know how to have a good time and make everyone feel like they belong, whether it's your first party or your fiftieth. We count down the days between events. If you're on the fence, just go — you'll thank us later.
Afterglow
Three days, a whole resort, poolside sets from DJ Steven-B, games and contests, and a crowd that got very close very fast.
Take a look back
Your first night
02 · Getting in
Choose an event, then sign in or apply for Free, Social or Legacy membership. Couples and singles are welcome.
Share your details once. Conditional approval lets you buy in the same visit. If host review is needed, we email your next step after approval.
A host reviews your hello before the event. Once you're confirmed, the exact venue or hotel details come straight to you.
Butterflies are welcome. Start with a conversation, enjoy the music and give yourself time to settle in.
Your first-night guideMembership
Start Free. Choose Social or Legacy for member savings, points, and more ways to connect.
$0
Your free place in the TampArotic community. Attend events at standard pricing.
$59/yr
More connection, member savings, and a little more from every night.
$99/yr
Priority access, deeper savings, and experiences made for Legacy members.
Our partners
Our hometown partner — a verification-first adult community for couples and singles, built right here in St. Pete. Founding memberships planned; the waitlist is open now.
Meet JoinTheSwingNext up
If the vibe sounds like yours, get on the list and we’ll take it from there.
I want in Next night: Autumn Under the Stars Hotel Takeover · Nov 21 · RSVP now
